Langtry and Baird met at a race course and he later gave her a horse which Langtry named “Mr. Jersey” and raced for her. Their affair lasted from 1891 until he died in 1893 (isn’t this the 2nd who’s died during her affair?)
After his death, Lillie bought some of his horses and moved to the village of Kenford near Newmarket. She expanded her stables and hired relations of her brothers, and of her first husband (Langtry). She went through many trainers and jockeys (as in hired; not affairs) for 23 years until she gave up the business after much lack of success. She had, however, entertained the Prince of Wales (her first affair).
(Photo: 1890 Lillie. Must have been the eyes..?)